Move Podcast #20 - Melissa Hurd - Be Abused, Abuse, Repeat - A Story on How the Abused Become the Abuser

Melissa Hurd, an author, who's taken three books to documents the events of her life. Scotty Carlisle, family member of an abused child, faces a transition in life that he struggles to understand... How someone who experiences abuse, can become the person abusing another. Melissa has taken a long journey to come to terms and accept the choices made by others and herself. An example of saving and redemption, Melissa has tested her faith and come out stronger on the other side. Told in a own straight forward style, she beats around no bushes. 

Growing up in Pennsylvania, Melissa, for most of her life she felt broken, unsettled by people she admired and respected. Noticing the poor treatment of animals, she started to rescue them. Tired of running, she decided to deal with the issues that had plagued her throughout her life. Today, she is heading closer to God and feels blessed about how her life has been turned completely around by His grace. She has a 28-year-old son, married with three children, whom she loves with all her heart. Her church family is Freedom Valley Church in Gettysburg, Pa. and Life Discovery Church in McSherrystown, Pa. She cannot thank them enough for guiding her closer to God and being the family she always needed.

HOT TOPICS:

00:02:00 - Abuse starts young
00:04:00 - Into the system
00:06:00 - How many families does it take to find a home?
00:07:00 - Going on vacation (and never coming back)
00:11:45 - Baby by abuser
00:20:00 - I was just so angry
00:23:00 - Three suicide attempts
00:36:00 - Scotty’s warning - BE AWARE
00:38:55 - Falsely accused
00:45:00 - ROCK BOTTOM
00:49:00 - What did God look like?
00:54:20 - I was able to let things go.
01:01:20 - Some people have been burned
01:04:55 - Dear God
01:11:15 - Message to take away
01:21:50 - Lights out!

SHOW NOTES:

• Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Melissa-Hurd-New-Author-109935880742312/
• Link to Book information - https://www.goodreads.com/group/bookshelf/1161274-move-group?shelf=read
• Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hurd-576abb1b2/

Scotty Carlisle is a Realtor in Corona, CA, where he has been real estate licensed since 2007. He has an extensive knowledge base from his experience as a financial advisor for almost 20 years. He founded several startups including but not limited to Fortress Life Financial Services in 2005, ExchangeMyLoan.com in 2007, American Freedom Equities in 2012 (a Registered Investment Advisory), BMG Marketing Group in 2012, My Unsung Hero Foundation (a 501c3 nonprofit organization) in 2012, and FLiP Creative Consulting in 2015. Scotty graduated from Georgia Southern University with a Bachelor Degree in Logistics, an EMT Certification from Cal-State Long Beach, and a Master Degree in Science, Entrepreneurship and Innovation – from the University of Southern California in 2015. Other licenses he acquired throughout his tenure include Life Insurance, Health Insurance, Property and Casualty, Series 7, Series 6, Series 63, Series 65, and of course the NMLS (Nationwide Multi-state Licensing System and Registry) for mortgages. He worked as COO of AES Marketing Group for 4 years (clients included Chrysler, Subaru, Toyota, Microsoft, eBay, and more). Scotty has been a financial consultant for many local businesses such as All Magic Paint and Body, in which he has helped them secure the funding to grow from 1 body shop to 4 shops in little over a year. Scotty has also been a board member of S.A.C.K. (Simple Acts of Care and Kindness) since 2009. He was an All-American collegiate wrestler at GSU (4th in Nation), and broke both existing springboard diving records there after only 2 years in the sport. He then went on to coach Diving at California Baptist University in which the swimming and diving team became CBU’s 1st National Champions – from any sport in history. He is currently a magician member at the Magic Castle in Hollywood (since 2008). His other hobbies include public speaking and Toastmasters, billiards, video production, music production, podcasting, and photography. By far, his best accomplishments in life include his 5 beautiful children and AMAZING wife which have made all of the other stuff possible. If anyone can help you accomplish your financial goals and negotiate your deal, while informing you of potential risks and rewards – there are very few people better equipped to make that happen.

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Produced by: Kasey N. Summers